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I met a guy at the gym

  • 1,508 posts

    I met a guy at the gym.  

    Fast forward to now. It's been hard to watch a man who was great at wooing me and treating me well devolve into a confused little boy.

    It's made weirder since he was the one who broke up with me, it's not like I was the one to end things.  

    Since he ended things I've been dating other guys but his recent behavior is such a turnoff. he arrives after me, doesn't talk to me, usually grabs the machine either right next to me or somewhere near me, and leaves the gym before I do. This has been going on for a couple weeks now.

    I can't tell if he's keeping tabs on me, working up the guts to say something, waiting for me to say something or trying to punish me.

    I don't really care either.

    I know what I want, a mature guy who leads and initiates.

    If he wants me to think about him it's working but probably not as intended.

    It's very hard to watch a man who had been a mature gentleman when we fir do whatever the fck he is doing rn.

    Meanwhile, I've been talking dating other guys. :)The ball is in his court.

    If it sits there bc he doesn't figure out how to pick it up, so be it. ;-)

    The only communication since breaking up with me has been a quick hello text,, and once from the airport? I think, which I'm not responding to.

    I completely agree with my friends' that he needs to make it clear he wants to talk.

    I want to keep it light and fun andto be around ppllike that. (: ..

  • 80 posts

    now how the events probably really went down:

    > the guy was polite to med like he must be with everyone

    > she thinks he was flirting and wanted her really bad

    > she started pursuing him non stop

    > ofc she can't get the social cues he was not interested like that in her

    > he avoids her because he noticed her obsessive behavior

     

    let the people be the judge

  • 68 posts

    I judge that I think dark knight is cadaver.

  • 1,508 posts

    Uh hello....puppet?

    I didn't plan to get explicitabout the relationship, but this is not the same as random chatting and chat room dalliances with guys i may never meet.

    Ain't nobody got time for that 😂😂😂

     

  • 3,880 posts

    medbedhead stated:

    I met a guy at the gym.  

    Fast forward to now. It's been hard to watch a man who was great at wooing me and treating me well devolve into a confused little boy.

    Isn't that how it always is?  

  • 2 posts

    Just one comment @dark knight: easy to attribute to politeness later, my dude , what was once interest or curiosity. Ymmv Just sayin'

  • 511 posts

    He devolved into a boy in response to what exactly? 

  • 80 posts

    sad to see that being polite nowadays means >> i wanna fuck you << for most

    i still have hope there are still educated people left in the world that for them being polite it's just a result of someone who were well raised, and not some stupid gangbanger or  a girl who lacks self confidence and can't control herself when given a small token of attention

    smh my dude really

  • 1,736 posts

    because women have a very bad grasp on reality they fantasize every man flirting with them at the slightest thing. imagine being that desperate for validation, sad.

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    Dark Knight stated:

     

    That for them being polite it's just a result of someone who were well raised, and not some stupid gangbanger or  a girl who lacks

    No, Wilkywonka that's not Cadaver, that's Waltz Inaminor. 98% sure. See above.

  • 12 posts

    Congratulations. You all are the most pathetic people on the internet today. 

  • 299 posts

    medbedhead stated:

    I met a guy at the gym.  

     

    good for you! 

  • 18 posts

    Is he a cop?

     

  • 323 posts

    Why did he break it off ?

  • 1,508 posts

    [oop sry changed my mind]

  • 570 posts

    I'm going to go pick up hot girls at the gym.

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