I met a guy at the gym
I met a guy at the gym.
Fast forward to now. It's been hard to watch a man who was great at wooing me and treating me well devolve into a confused little boy.
It's made weirder since he was the one who broke up with me, it's not like I was the one to end things.
Since he ended things I've been dating other guys but his recent behavior is such a turnoff. he arrives after me, doesn't talk to me, usually grabs the machine either right next to me or somewhere near me, and leaves the gym before I do. This has been going on for a couple weeks now.
I can't tell if he's keeping tabs on me, working up the guts to say something, waiting for me to say something or trying to punish me.
I don't really care either.
I know what I want, a mature guy who leads and initiates.
If he wants me to think about him it's working but probably not as intended.
It's very hard to watch a man who had been a mature gentleman when we fir do whatever the fck he is doing rn.
Meanwhile, I've been talking dating other guys. :)The ball is in his court.
If it sits there bc he doesn't figure out how to pick it up, so be it. ;-)
The only communication since breaking up with me has been a quick hello text,, and once from the airport? I think, which I'm not responding to.
I completely agree with my friends' that he needs to make it clear he wants to talk.
I want to keep it light and fun andto be around ppllike that. (: ..
now how the events probably really went down:
> the guy was polite to med like he must be with everyone
> she thinks he was flirting and wanted her really bad
> she started pursuing him non stop
> ofc she can't get the social cues he was not interested like that in her
> he avoids her because he noticed her obsessive behavior
let the people be the judge
sad to see that being polite nowadays means >> i wanna fuck you << for most
i still have hope there are still educated people left in the world that for them being polite it's just a result of someone who were well raised, and not some stupid gangbanger or a girl who lacks self confidence and can't control herself when given a small token of attention
smh my dude really