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  • 18:01
    "I can survive with so little."
  • 18:02
    no 3% isn't like survival on that kind of level
  • 18:02
    Lol basically the invitation is how a SC meeting would be
  • 18:02
    it's survival against very intense circumstances
  • 18:02
    a thinning of the the heard sort of thing
  • 18:02
    futuristic
  • 18:03
    more a test of the mind than anything
  • 18:03
    It wouldn't be that bad.
  • 18:03
    what, the future?
  • 18:03
    TC is just squishy irl, Edvard is probably a fucking pussy, everyone else just bitches and does nothing
  • 18:03
    Fae's innocent
  • 18:03
    Tryp's tipsy
  • 18:03
    etc etc
  • 18:04
    oh, a meeting of SC people
  • 18:04
    i likely wouldn't say much and then would make an excuse to leave
  • 18:05
    but it would be fun to do what my debate team used to do
  • 18:05
    blanc have you seen train to busan?
  • 18:05
    we did drunk history night and drunk science night
  • 18:05
    no i haven't seen that movie it looks sad
  • 18:05
    girl on the train... was stupid but kind of oddly good
  • 18:05
    omg... noir thrillers with female leads are my shit.
  • 18:05
    all good things..
  • 18:06
    and that movie about that girl who runs away and frames her husband for a murderer
  • 18:06
    ghost something
  • 18:06
    no wait, gone girl.
  • 18:06
    i loved gone girl so much i made my bf take me to the movie theater in mexico to see it twice, and then made other people watch it and watched it another two times.
  • 18:06
    i just love that story line it's so dramatic and bloody and amazing
  • 18:07
    and the actress plays eerie so well... just love it.
  • 18:07
    and i rarely, rarely, repeat movies like that.
  • 18:07
    eden lake will make you feel more depressed than you are
  • 18:08
    female lead
  • 18:08
    but probably seen it
  • 18:10
    It's like you watch that damn movie
  • 18:11
    And nobody survives in the end
  • 18:11
    SPOILERED
  • 18:11
    Feels like you wasted 2 hours for nothing
  • 18:11
    i'm not really depressed anymore thanks to therapy and meds
  • 18:11
    but i don't like to watch depressing stuff
  • 18:13
    WTF LOL 😂
  • 18:13
    h ttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vao5rn7OHPo
  • 18:13
    .__.
  • 18:29
    Net neutrality vote
  • 18:32
    Boo.
  • 18:33
    I'm sending an e-mail to our senators.
  • 18:33
    Good.
  • 18:38
    And a few more angry calls were made just now.
  • 18:38
    I called up my man Dave Brat
  • 18:40
    Lol.
  • 18:41
    In case we get a new member, kindly redirect them to my thread. Thanks
  • 18:41
    h ttps://sociopath-community.com/threads/5a32c44447f175410ea9ef44
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I'm good at making friends..

  • 57 posts

    But not good at maintaining them... 

    This can both be a result of my own growing apathy towards whichever person I am conversing with, or their growing disinterest in me. 

    It's rarely a fight, or a breakup, it's always the slowly growing apart. 

    I hate it, and it ruind me and it hurts. I resent people for it and I resent myself because I am just like them 

    but you should never give up x)

  • 3,416 posts

    I know someone like that. Good at making friends but not good at keeping them.

    Like if we're walking, she'll randomly spark a conversation with some guy along the way, could be some young dad watering his lawn, or if we go out to eat she'll talk with some guy on the staff the whole time.

    Men shouldn't hang out with hot chicks who want to play buddy buddy. It'll hinder your ability to pick up women, then when you're in a relationship, hanging out with your hot buddy isn't worth the stress it will cause in your relationship.

    But yes, not worth it to hang out as it's always a game of trying to make me jelly, but of course it ends with my glorious detachment. HA HA HA how it entertains me.

  • 91 posts

    lol friends can't run away if you cut their legs off. 

    Also enemies can't run away, because running is what your enemies should be doing and it's your job to chase them so... make frenemies instead.

  • 57 posts

    It's the cycle we keep running 

    it's what I am! x) 

  • 1,209 posts

    This happens my friend, better not dwell. Just learn from it and move on! Some people need time apart, keep running that cycle! 

  • 4,874 posts

    Out of sight, out of mind.

  • 1,209 posts

    Is that truly so, Trypt? Is there no one you think about after all this time

  • 4,874 posts

    That's a proverb with a specific meaning.

  • 1,209 posts

    I know. I found it doesn't hold true for a lot of people. Well, not for those who matter anyway. 

  • 62 posts

    With me, I have 2 really good friends. They live in different parts of the world though. Then where I live I have 2 other friends. They are also good friends, but I have no deeper connection with them. Honestly, most people bore me, I don't even bother to befriend them. I would find it incredibly difficult to maintain a friendship with a person that is just nice, but boring. I don't know, maybe it is the early exposure to the internet, but I find most people are not on my wave at all. So when you say you find maintaining relationships too hard, maybe it is not the case that the fault is with you, but with most people.

     

    -Of course different things could also be the case, like you have intimacy issues or so and when the superficial has passed you don't know what to do and start to isolate yourself. 

    -It could be the case that you are a bit on the shizoid spectrum (antisocial). From what you write I take that you don't like how your relationships grow apart and that you's liek it differently. That is not typical for someone on the shizoid spectrum though.

     

    What else comes to mind is that I have noticed that 'normie' relationships are less deep and co-dependent than most people that are on the internet. Personally, I tended to spend all my free time with my friends and often became one with their identity. Maybe on some fucked up Jungian level you see yourself in them and are turned off. 

     

    In the end what I can say about people in general is that they tend to always have the same relationships. Usually they create 'systems' in that they can exist safely and all their relationships represent that. If you look back and look into all your relationships, you will probably find the same pattern, back to the very early relationships that imprinted this pattern into you. Then it is time to take charge and confront this old part in yourself that still creates the same unnecessary systems and integrate it. You have to realize that you are not that person anymore. You have to realize that there were reasons why it was better at that time to have these kinds of relationships, but now is a different time and you don't need that system anymore.

    Also, just to say, apathy is often a coping mechanism.

    Lol, ok this was like a shot-gun blast into the dark. Maybe all, maybe nothing hit the target. Peace out. 

  • 3,203 posts

    you are my frined mr teqad :)

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